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Several Signs That You May Have a Cheater on Your Hands
After a relationship is established, everyone hopes that both sides are faithful to each other, especially if the
relationship was set up to not be an open relationship. The problem comes when one of the partners is not faithful
and the other one is having suspicions to whether cheating is involved or not. There are several signs that might
indicate if a partner is cheating.
Often times, when a partner starts cheating, he or she is suddenly ready to get into shape. Vigorous exercising and
a healthier lifestyle to lose weight and get muscles toned again can be one of the first signs that a partner is
cheating. Finding a new partner or having a flirt with someone else means for most people to get their bodies back
into shape.
Next, partners that are cheating often start to find some excuses to come home late or stay out overnight all
together. The “Honey, I have to work longer” excuse might appear more often and business trips are sprinkled more
frequently throughout the year than ever before. Another sign that there is cheating involved is when the partner
comes home from the late work day and needs to make himself instantly fresh, such as a shower, a change of cloths,
new deodorant and more, to obviously cover up whatever happened.
Additionally, a woman should be worried if her partner comes home from one of the late work days or business trips
and is overly interested in her day. When does it happen that after a long workday the partner comes home and does
more than just east dinner and watch TV? Asking about the workday and being interested in what happened surely is
not normally on the partners list after along workday. Also, even though the cheater was not asked about his
whereabouts, he will give lengthy explanations and try to make it look as harmless as possible.
Additionally, it also often happens that the cheating partner calls home and he says, “just checking in”. Most
often, it is the guilty conscience that makes them call home, but in the end, it just means that they are cheating.
Another indicator might be when the woman tries to call the partner on those long nights in the office, and no one
can be reached. The cell phone is also unavailable or it rings until the answering machine picks up.
On the sexual part of the relationship, when one is cheating the scale can tip either way. Some partners that cheat
want to have more sex than ever, while others are not interested in sex anymore, since they already are getting
what they are looking for from their other partner. If either one occurs all the sudden, it is generally one sign
of cheating.
Sometimes, if the cheater is not careful enough or maybe not smart enough, they will give away their phone number.
It is even easier to tell whether a partner is cheating or not because frequent phone calls will be answered with
short one-sentence answers. Perhaps many “wrong numbers” come to the house, or the phone will ring just once and
then he disappears to make a quick call.
These signs are especially suspicious if more than one of them occurs in a similar time range. If all of them are
apparent, it is time to talk to the partner and to get it either worked out or over with. You have to get rid of
suspicions and go on with life. Cheating is not fun and often, relationships plain break apart when one partner is
not faithful.
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