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Just A Little About Dating Women
If you are a guy, then there is nothing more important, or frustrating, then dating women. To a guy, dating women
successfully is one of the most important things we can do, but it is this whole idea of trying to make women happy
that gets us all caught in a vicious circle. Women know that guys find it necessary to date, so when a woman
finally gets a guy, rather than make him feel wanted and necessary in her life, she decides to push buttons and
test boundaries. I know that it is necessary to learn everything you can about someone when you are dating them,
but there are just some things that guys need left alone that women will not leave alone at all.
I have seen guys that have the whole idea of dating women totally under control and I can tell it is all about
self-esteem. A guy with high self-esteem is going to be able to date many women and then let each woman he dates
know that he is or is not looking for a full time mate and they may or may not be the one. The rest of us, the guys
with little or no self-esteem who make up the other 95% of the male population, treat every woman like she is that
last one that will have an interest in us and are always genuinely surprised, in the course of dating women, when
we find one that actually does care about us. Men, for all of the machismo we try and project, are really fragile
when it comes to dating women.
Some Guys Make It Too Easy
A tight dress, hair done up right, make up in all the right places and some guys will sign over the deed to their
house to a woman. That makes it difficult for the rest of us that do have a little self-esteem and would rather not
give away our estate to every woman we decide to date to compete. But then again the guys that give everything away
to every woman they date wind up with nothing in a big hurry and that includes no money, no car, and no woman. It
is kind of sad, really, but it still is just one of those things that tips the balance of power in the dating game
decidedly to the female side.
There is a mechanism in most men and women that make men the hunter and women the prize and while many women would
prefer to not look at it that way that is the way most men prefer to act. We will do stupid things to attract women
and most of them never work. All it really takes is some self confidence and a lot of money … like a whole Jaguar
full of money.
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