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Creating the Perfect Profile
Header
Most online dating websites will encourage you to have a short
profile header line that is used with your username. This
profile header line is usually used in searches that other
members do to find appropriate matches for what they are
looking for in someone they want to meet. Don’t make the
mistake of putting just anything into your profile header since
this will leave you with responses to your online dating ad
that you don’t want. You want to have a profile header line
that gets you immediate attention. This includes lines that are
funny, cute, or philosophical. You want to encourage the right
people to click on your profile and find out more about
you.
There are some aspects of the profile header line that you
should focus on so that you get the most mileage out of these
few short words. Avoid using headers that hundreds of other
people use and that by now are becoming very boring. Overused
headers are those such as “I’m the one you’re looking for” or
“want to meet new people”. You don’t want to be part of the
rest of the crowd who is looking for an online date. You want
to stand out from the rest with a description of who you
are.
Take a look at other profile headers before you start writing
your own. Choose headers that interest you and try to come with
a similar slant. Determine what it is about those headers that
you like and why. Some successful header ideas are “Sharp spark
wants to ignite similar paths” or “Here I am…do you have any
other wishes”. The insight of other profile headers can guide
you in being creative with your own.
Your profile header is one way that you can filter out your
potential online dates from those that aren’t even in the
running. If you want to increase the number of people who are
interested in you for the right reasons you can include some
specifics in your header line such as “Looking for 24-30 year
old man who loves to golf” or “You need to be at least 5’9” to
get on this ride”.
Change your profile header every once in a while so that you
get more responses to your online ad. Come up with a cute new
header every week so that you’re attracting different kinds of
people. You might want to think about changing your photo just
as often so there is a fresh angle on you each week for new
members to find.
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