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Breaking Up

Online dating is just like dating someone that you meet offline: there is always that question about what to do if it’s time to break up. Whether it’s you or the other person who decides that it’s time to end the relationship it’s never easy to do. Perhaps when it comes to online dating there are always more break-ups as people find out more and more about each other over a period of time. And let’s face it…if one relationship isn’t working out, there is always another online date out there for you.

If you know that you’re no longer interested in seeing someone try not to drag it out for too long. If you’re on the first date and you know that it just isn’t going to work you should be honest with your date so that you don’t give them the impression that you want to see them again. Although this may be brutally honest it will save you a lot of heartache in the future. Be honest about your feelings without hurting the other person. Rather than tell them what you think is wrong with them try to put the focus back on yourself. Tell them that you just don’t feel as though there is any connection for you. Thank them for the date but make it clear that you won’t be going out again.

Many people think that if the dating and romance part of the date didn’t work out that there may be a chance of friendship. Be honest with yourself. If you’re doing the online dating thing you’re probably not looking for new friends but want romance instead. If you’ve been dating someone you met online for a while the break up will be harder. Make sure that you give the other person a chance to talk about their feelings so that you end the relationship on a good note with both of you feeling as though you have reached a good level of closure.

Don’t break up with someone in a public place. You don’t want to humiliate them if things don’t go smoothly. Online dating comes all of the same issues as dating someone that you meet offline. Whether you end up dating long term, or call it quits after one date, you’ll still be making the same decisions about your relationship that you would if had met offline. The thing to keep in mind is that you’re in control of who you date and for how long you want to continue seeing them.